A relationship is a name for trust and companionship. When your man ruins your trust and the companionship that you have been sharing for years, you feel torn and betrayed. Well, infidelity always is hard for the person who suffers because of it, while the other might have been enjoying it although regretting later.
Your partner may be involved either in an emotional infidelity, by getting emotionally involved with some other person or in physical infidelity, getting sexually involved with some other person.
A lot of factors can lead to infidelity which include relationship problems. Other factors that lead to infidelity include superiority or inferiority complex, jealousy, boredom, aging, extrication, feeling neglected, low self esteem, seeking excitement and falling out of love.
If you want to know whether your partner is cheating on you, look out for the following signs:
Your partner starts to get emotionally distant from you, withdrawn or depressed. The partner often goes to an extent of becoming a bit selfish, engrossed in personal things and completely ignorant of his or her partner. The unfaithful partner will often act angry, critical and at times can even act cruel. The partner starts to act disrespectful, angry, rude and impatient towards you, the children and family.
The issue of a ‘controlling partner’ is brought up by the cheating partner. The partner will often complain of being controlled or watched over. The unfaithful partner starts to extend their work hours by saying they have extra work, or after work meetings. They even start to take out of town business trips for longer periods of time and quite frequently.
One of the other triggers that you must watch out for is “illness of the one who is faithful”. This means that the unfaithful partner gets on with cheating while you are either severely sick or are suffering from severe health problems. They often end up complaining, “You were not there when I needed you the most”.
Other sign that you can watch for is when they start paying extra attention to their appearance. They buy new clothes, lose weight, work out at the gym or other go for other such sudden fitness endeavors. Whenever you ask questions, though they might be a normal routine for both of you earlier, your partner starts getting defensive. This can be another sign pointing toward infidelity.
However, even if your partner does show any of these signs, it can be possible that he or she is not cheating on you, but it is always better to watch out.
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Thursday, September 15, 2011
Infidelity – How To Know Your Partner Is Cheating?
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